Tasren: A friend is friend...real friend?

 A friend is friend....or is it?

So, you think you have a real friend - a friend who cares about you, who supports you through thick and thin do you?

 

“For now, i know i try to find the happiness from someone...i don't know who...but i have the feeling.....but i also have to accept that everyone i have met has been insincere and fake and for this reason i don't want to go...its a dilemma...to go or not to go....but i don't want to try...and knowing that i have you who is trying hard to help me go to the right path makes me feel happier and not lonely. I know that sometimes this is not the type of words that you wish to hear but i also know that in time i will be better and stronger and will not doubt you...i dont'   now...i promise you this and i know that our friendship and bond is stronger that we can overcome anything that come our way...i know this from experience and after loosing you for 6 yrs...i don't want to loose you again....i know the feeling and loneliness that i had to bear and i don't want to experience that again....rest assured i will be honest with you and sincere and hold you tight and not let you go.

Having  said this, sometimes one encounters problems while attaining on the path of enlightenment...there may be temptations  along the way....i believe i can pass it and i believe in yours and our strenght that we can pass it....not because of i scare or but i believe in you.”

 

Luckily in the past Nazir had Yiching ....the friend who would support him  and wish him only the best.  Unfortunately ...not now!!    Nazir now has  many "pretend" friends - someone who's only there when they need something ...and he realise this very well.

The moments in life when you discover who your true friends are, are more than likely going to be the times when something traumatic has happened - like when you've taken a risk to do something and reach out to your friends for support.