TASREN: The opportunity

From  “Yiching”  to “ Nazir”

 

 

 

Friends are friend forever together 'till the end.

For 6 years we went out separate ways.

 One day you wrote this to me…..

“…i would like to wish for...to have you back as my dear friend and to be able to talk to you as before and see you also...i hope that is one wish i can get..”

I let your wish come true and gave you the opportunity.

You promised me that you would always be my friend.

And will never lied again

You said you are happy that you have me ..

Someone u can talk to at times of bad and good...easy and difficult

Someone you can be sincere and honest and not have to tell the lie

 

One day (1 month later) something changed

I'm not sure what it was.

And for some reason, I don't know why, we couldn't make it right.

 

The First time when you told me you will change,
I tried to believe you. I did,
But soon you were back to the old you.
I realised you didn’t change,

 Forgive and Forget,that i have done.
I’ll do my part as a friend.
No matter who you are.

And you know who am I

But whatever it is,
I know I can’t say much.
I will accept whoever you are,
because you are who you are.

We went our separate ways.

This went on for days and days.

Humans are selfish.
Many tend to not try understanding others before doing something.
But one day when you find out,
                                      It’s too late.
 

With Yiching and Nazir friendship made me realized that each person we meet, be it a stranger or the best of friends, come into our lives for a certain reason and ours in theirs as well. Sometimes they come back into it, sometimes they don’t, sometimes they never leave.

But I feel sorry for Nazir That he haven’t realized ..he can’t find out the person like Yiching anymore..the really kindness and virtuous person.

 

I would like to tell them .."Live in the

present and make it so

beautiful that it will be worth

remembering."

TASREN: Why we are friends..Yiching?

"Yiching"

 

I know my close friend ”Yiching” for nearly twelve years and she’s an awesome person. She was actually the first foreigner friend I made when I moved to study abroad, and we started talking to each other because we were in the same situation. We could say that it was “friendship at first sight”. We went out travelled every month together.

Yiching is a very kind lady, although she doesn’t like to show that much.  If you don't know her well, you could think that she’s quite serious, not very friendly, but once you talk with her you will notice that she’s very cheerful, warm and you just have to like her. I like the best of Yiching is that she is very reasonable. She’s also very intelligent, and she knows about many different things. She has very special gift no one know this only me, Nazir and Raji. Her only problem is that when she use her energy to help someone especially Nazir she will have nose breeding everytime.

But for Nazir, Yiching should be his true friend cos she’s always there when Nazir was sad or have problems with his science, and she’s always ready to listen to Nazir problems and to help him everytime. Whether it’s evil or good they always do it anyway if they get into trouble they always get into trouble together they always make each other laugh, and keep each other company and always have fun.                                                                 The place we went together..

 

To Yiching hobbies belong writing, travelling and reading interesting books and novels. She loves dolls collection. With me Yiching will be always friends and even if we move out to another country, we will stay in touch .

To sum up, Yiching is one of the most incredible lady I know, and I’m happy to have her as one of my close friends. Our friendship will last forever.

Yiching gave me this doll before she leaved.

T A S R EN: Memorandum for Yiching and Nazir

T A S R EN = Talk About  Soul, Religion, Endless Novel

by meepole

Tasren: Bliss is in the mind .

  "Nazir" and "Yiching"  are close friends of mine. We shared sadness and happiness in life while  studying abroad. After we graduated we came back to continue our own life in different country. Yiching and Nazir  stay in touch from time to time for one and half year after they graduated..until one day something had happened between them and they never contacted to each other for 6 years …until this year in May 2012 they both come back  and started the new friendship again…they talked to each other everyday happily .

Nazir went to visit Yiching and both talked about their life….what had happened  in the past six year and mostly about Nazir’s life. Nazir want to start the new friendship with Yiching again and requested her for leading his life to the right path etc. Nazir has made many promises with Yiching about many things for the future.

 When Nazir went back to his country, they still kept contact by talking over the phone or chat using whatsapp everyday. The same event had happened again..... Nazir and Yiching had end up their friendship even if this time they have the way out but Yiching don’t want to continue the friendship like that again.

I knew this cos Yiching told me the whole stories and forwarded many mails to me. She would like me to know every details if I can consider, realize, criticize, analyse or whatever  that  I can do to give her the advice, comment or support.

I spent many days to think about their problems cos we are intimate companion. With this ..i means their stories like the endless novel cos if anyone can know what I had  knew from Yiching  they should feel sympathy  and so sad  for  Nazir’s life in the past and from now on..  it will start soon or might be beginning already….  

Yiching allowed me to use her stories as the lesson, guideline  for everyone who just lost friend  and want to lead their life with the peaceful mind. (in really I should say “ Nazir just lost the only true friend or the only best friend in his life”)

Their stories are very interesting and give me the idea that I can use this occasion to talk about life ,soul, friendship, happiness, karma, way of life follow the Buddha’s teachings  etc. Unfortunately my English is so poor ..i would like to appologise for this but I will try my best to  do this for both of them..i don’t know that their friendship can start again in the future or not but all I known from Yiching was .."only if Nazir is strong enough to conquer the black thing surround his life and whenever he can overcome the sensuous craving ..he might come back  but if it  too late  until the black thing destroy his….....then it useless to start anything again."

I have hope with my good intention to write this blog and believe in the good karma we all have done together until we become closed friend in this life…….."they" will give us the miracle to open Nazir’s mind to walk beside us again with the happiness and peaceful life ..which he really wish it.

In Modern Hebrew the word "nazir" is commonly used for monks, both Christian and Buddhist - this meaning having largely displaced the original Biblical meaning.(Wikiepedia)

Reject the Mara’s snare.    Bliss is in the mind .

I deeply appreciate for everyone gracious support ;)

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